BOTH SIDES

Two sides. One read.

Most AI relationship advice only hears one side.

Tell a chatbot about a fight and it only gets your version, so it tends to agree with you. Both Sides has each of you tell what happened, privately. Then it reads both and gives you one piece of feedback to read together.

Try it free

Jordan's sideI asked three times if we could plan the weekend. Every time it was “later.” I felt like I was the only one who cared.

Sam's sideI walked in from a 10 hour shift and got a list of questions at the door. I needed ten minutes before I could think.

What they read together

You were both trying to protect the same weekend. You just needed it at different times.

1. Start a roomYou get a link to send your partner. No accounts or sign up.
2. Tell your sideType it or press Talk and say it out loud. Your partner never sees your words.
3. Read it togetherOnce you're both in, you each get the same feedback.

What happens to what you write

Locked to your links. Each room is encrypted with a key that only exists in your two links.

Deleted on a timer. Your sides are erased as soon as the feedback is ready. The room deletes itself after 3 days, or right away if either of you deletes it.

No accounts or tracking. No sign up, no ads, no tracking cookies.

Not a counselor. The feedback can be wrong, and it doesn't replace a counselor.

When not to use Both Sides

If you're afraid of your partner, or someone is being hurt or threatened, don't use this. Shared feedback can make those situations more dangerous. Call or text the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788.

Start a room

Your first room is free. Only the person who starts a room needs one, so your partner always joins free.